It might actually be smarter to first determine your goals and what it would take to meet them, and then integrate those goals into your budget.

Here's how to get started.

Write down your top three major financial goals. These may include paying down debt or saving for a house or your children's college.

Next, write down the expected total cost and time frame. Divide the cost by the total number of months. This is how much you'll need to set aside each month to reach your goals. (If the set-asides seem too big, you may want to extend your time frame.)

To reach your goals, you'll need to set aside a certain amount each month. One good method for doing this is to set aside your goal money first, then cut back spending accordingly.

How much spending will you need to cut? Where will you cut? Or how much additional income, if any, will you need to earn each month? The best way to answer these questions is to do a budget.

This is where the magic happens. Once you begin to see your financial picture more clearly, you'll begin to discover new and exciting solutions.

Once you've made a budget, write down your spending each month to see if you're on track. If you accidentally go over budget in one area, don't panic. Instead, try to cut back in other areas so you can still come out on target.

Staying on top of your budget takes only a few hours a month. It may seem awkward at first, but the more you do it the easier it gets. Rewards soon follow. As your debts go down, your savings will increase. Best of all, you'll live better by getting the most from your money.

Once you know how much you spend, you can use this information to estimate your monthly expenses. First, put in your fixed bills, such as your monthly mortgage payment or rent, car payment and all loan and credit card payments. Then fill in the rest, estimating as best as you can. Make sure you include all the hidden costs of driving a car (insurance, gasoline, repairs) and owning a home (maintenance, repairs). Even if you don't have to make an insurance payment next month, include one-twelfth of your yearly insurance bills. When planning your budget, be realistic about spending items. The more accurate you are, the better you'll see the current state of your finances and the better you'll be able to make decisions.

If your total monthly spending is more than your maximum spending limit, go back and look for areas to trim. Keep cutting until your monthly spending falls below the maximum, so there is money left over.

What you do with the small amount you have left over at the end of each month will have an enormous impact on your finances. This is the only money, other than the amount you've set aside for your goal, that you can use to improve your financial situation. Consider using this money to improve your financial situation by paying down your credit card and loan balances, or setting it aside for an emergency fund.

Some of the money in your budget won't actually be spent every month. This includes money you've budgeted for future car repairs, house repairs, insurance, property taxes and medical and dental bills. Don't spend it. When those big bills finally arrive, you won't be caught short.